Years ago I worked with a man who described himself to be a lot like the television character Monk while his wife was a lot like TV’s character Lucy Ricardo.  As you can imagine the reason for the original attraction was their complete opposite nature and the beauty of their relationship was the balance they brought to each other. 

 However, after years of marriage, the very things that had caused the attraction were now causing irritation.  And as their focus on each other’s “flaws”...
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